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Older gay men on the advice they???d give to their 21-year-old selves
2+ hour, 42+ min ago (946+ words) A post on the AskGayBrosOver30 subreddit has prompted hundreds of interesting and thought-provoking replies. It began when a user explained that they were deep in the closet at age 22. They’d hook up in secret with guys from Grindr and then feel…...
My boyfriend insists we need a gun to protect ourselves. I couldn't disagree more. Are we doomed?
1+ mon, 4+ week ago (698+ words) My boyfriend grew up in Mississippi and insists we need a gun in the house to protect ourselves as a gay couple. I hate guns and don’t even want one under my roof. The confusing part is I kind of…...
LGBTQ+ people are sharing joyful photos of themselves as kids
2+ mon, 1+ week ago (105+ words) An adorable thread on Threads is melting the internet’s heart. In a caption, he said, “Happy Pride Month from an eldergay to you. Was there ever any doubt?” Many LGBTQ+ people shared their own childhood images that, in hindsight, hinted…...
Jaymes Black is building a lifeline for LGBTQ+ youth
2+ mon, 1+ week ago (362+ words) For LGBTQ+ young people, a crisis line can be the difference between feeling completely alone and hearing someone say, in real time, that their life is worth staying for. That’s the reality Jaymes Black stepped into in 2024 when they became…...
Peeing in the dark: Gender dysphoria, shame & the body I couldn't bear to see
2+ mon, 1+ week ago (273+ words) The following is an excerpt from the new book Ugly: A Letter to My Daughter by Steph Fairyington and available now from Pantheon Books. In my gender-dissonant youth, in order to create further distance between my body and my inner…...
What happens when Black gay men refuse to carry other people's shame
2+ mon, 1+ week ago (222+ words) The following is an adapted excerpt from Shameless: The Making of Black Gay Identities in LA by Terrell J. A. Winder (NYU Press, 2026). Shameless is an in-depth exploration of the ways that young Black gay men in Los Angeles come together to…...
The secret I couldn’t keep: How a tiny newspaper ad led me to the truth about who I was
2+ mon, 2+ week ago (561+ words) The following is an excerpt from the new book Without Prejudice: My Life as a Gay Judge by Harvey Brownstone and available now wherever books are sold. I was, without doubt, a homosexual. At first I tried to convince myself…...
From He-Man to Tiger Beat: All the childhood clues I missed on my way to coming out
2+ mon, 2+ week ago (1167+ words) The following is an excerpt from the new book Breaking Free: Stop Following Expectations and Start Following Yourself by Spencer West, available now from Hay House, Inc. You might think that the hardest mountain Spencer West had to climb was…...
SF Giants players pound it out with a very gay post-game celebration
3+ mon, 2+ week ago (749+ words) The San Francisco Giants are thrusting themselves into contention… literally! Following the final out Monday of their 9-3 victory over the rival Los Angeles Dodgers, all three outfielders gathered for a warm embrace. But they didn’t stop at wrapping their arms…...
Have self-compassion, take a warm shower & seek out insightful twinks: Gays share their best pieces of advice
4+ mon, 2+ day ago (868+ words) A little advice never hurt anybody. While Americans pride themselves on individuality, there’s no shame in asking for help. It’s important to hear the wisdom of those who came before us, so when we repeat their mistakes, we have a…...